In an effort to address a common challenge for some males, through this book, I offer a unique perception on filling the voids that this challenge create. The challenge is; not having a positive male role model in the development of some males. Creatively, through this writing, I offer a unique model for some males, and females, to get a feel for. I examine the uniqueness of rooms in a typical house, and parallel the environmental purpose of the rooms with the mental thought process of the male inhabitant of the room. This is done through the use of chronicling four neighborhood boys, who grew up in the same neighborhood, but from very different households. The examination starts by having the reader to focus on the purpose of various rooms. Further, recognition of the physical components and fuctional parts of specific rooms are examined through the "creative eyes and mindset" of the author. The reader is then given an opportunity to judge (himself or herself) - present or past actions in a room. Hence, based on the criteria of the book, the goal of the book is for the reader to makle a determination of how they can "Be a man about it" on certain issues.