What could she have done, to make things different, when there where so many choices. Could they go back? I know you have the answer! Raising up your child, what would you do after you raised them up to adulthood, and they suddenly met with a tragic accident? What if the child was raised up in a single parent home, and the missing parent was never able to make up for what they did or didn''t do before the lose of the child. The elements that effect your child and the elements that came across in before they died, whether things happened to the mother or the son. Then after the child dies, the spiritual realm, when things present themselves, through a loved one! What would you do if they had a dream occasionally, and things happened around you, that might not be explained right away. Would you discount them as just memories, or would those dreams have more to it. Do you believe in life after death? What happens in the afterlife? What would one do; how would one cope! It's like cutting your heart out and laying it on the table, I know this, for it happened to my family and especially my father, David's Grandpa.