Have you been impacted by the death of a child either as their parent or not? Are you struggling with the pain that this greatest loss creates and trying to work your way out of the foreign territory being experienced? Has your joy of life disappeared? Are you feeling stuck? Are you wondering who am I? Our Compatible Grief is a book designed to guide bereaved parents and the outside world folks through the universal pain felt by all upon a child's death. No matter the age of the child; no matter the circumstances surrounding the death. The author mastered both and does not believe she is any different than anyone else. Sharing all that she experienced to have that happen for herself in Our Compatible Grief is a reflection of her desire for all bereaved parents to access the same benefits. We are all deserving. The author's goal is to provide an exploration of the many components attached to the process of both healing from the loss and restoring the joy of life. The knowledge imparted as to what was required by Deborah in order to successfully complete her grief journey is done so in a user-friendly and on point manner. It approaches the subject matter from both sides, illuminating the perspectives of both grievers and those wishing to support them. The opportunities to become comfortable with journaling, implementing inner peace, and moving from sorrow to joy are abundant.