Being married, only to go through divorce is one thing, but to be married and divorced as a Christian, committed to God and the church, is another story. And even for those who are not into church, I'm sure you can relate! Welcome to This So-Called Single Life, a story of being married and divorced, while serving God to getting back out into the dating world, all while trying to balance being a single parent. I share the life lessons I learned while going through an abusive marriage, divorcing, and dating people who were not meant to be in my life. If you are dating, engaged, single, married, separated, or divorced, then this book is for you. As you read my story, you will encounter real-life situations that took place in my journey to find myself, learn about the pitfalls of lust that I fell into, and see the many heartaches I had to endure because of disobedience. It was not until I surrendered my will, that God was able to take control and pull me out of the guilt and shame of my past. This is a story of forgiving yourself and others, learning what is intended for you to learn when mistakes are made, letting go of the hurt that hinders you, and loving yourself and others while in the healing process. Meditate on the little nuggets that where truly inspired by God and allow the life lessons to resonate in your mind, as you journey through my life in "This So-Called Single Life".